tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1824547228125638907.post3801254886753609453..comments2024-03-22T03:20:39.114+00:00Comments on New Mum Online: The Pressure to WriteNew Mum Onlinehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14285584922202683960noreply@blogger.comBlogger11125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1824547228125638907.post-28506320807384962782013-05-27T22:25:36.134+01:002013-05-27T22:25:36.134+01:00I will do exactly that m'darling xI will do exactly that m'darling xNew Mum Onlinehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14285584922202683960noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1824547228125638907.post-90844421578060078052013-05-27T21:57:03.144+01:002013-05-27T21:57:03.144+01:00PPs Also totally agree with Michelle - if you need...PPs Also totally agree with Michelle - if you need a blog break - then take one. I have a number of times and I always come back refreshed and with a better perspective. Take all pressure off yourself. XOlder Mumhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02923339244117157344noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1824547228125638907.post-47966748066772084742013-05-27T21:55:04.557+01:002013-05-27T21:55:04.557+01:00Write, write, and write, then write some more, wri...Write, write, and write, then write some more, write from your heart (you write with A LOT of passion and honesty and love as it is) and then carry on writing. I am such a perfectionist with my writing, and I sometimes put myself under so much pressure to write 'the best post' which is unhealthy and then I feel demoralised and want to walk away from my blog... write like you are blind folded and you are writing a last ever letter to a really close friend - let the words flow what ever they might be, and be authentic and true to yourself which is always what comes across in your writing. My writing wasn't great when I first started out, I practiced and practiced and wrote and wrote, and over time it improved and I'm still learning. This is your space to write whatever you please and be the person you need to be. And please link up to #onceuponatime, I'll bet you have a great story to tell! I am really looking forward to seeing you again at Britmums live, you are so lovely to be around. (ps thank you for mentioning me in your post). XXX Older Mumhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02923339244117157344noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1824547228125638907.post-80597552867101881602013-05-26T12:07:41.778+01:002013-05-26T12:07:41.778+01:00Lovely to have a Fairy visit my blog ;-)
and thank...Lovely to have a Fairy visit my blog ;-)<br />and thank you for your kind words.<br />Nice to know I am not alone<br />xxNew Mum Onlinehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14285584922202683960noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1824547228125638907.post-85617662371612527592013-05-26T12:06:57.163+01:002013-05-26T12:06:57.163+01:00Eeee by gum thank you xxxEeee by gum thank you xxxNew Mum Onlinehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14285584922202683960noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1824547228125638907.post-82595325598316155522013-05-26T12:06:32.016+01:002013-05-26T12:06:32.016+01:00Yes, looking forward to a great cuddle at BML xxYes, looking forward to a great cuddle at BML xxNew Mum Onlinehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14285584922202683960noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1824547228125638907.post-6971973770912899522013-05-26T12:06:06.007+01:002013-05-26T12:06:06.007+01:00Thanks - I have missed chatting with you on Twitte...Thanks - I have missed chatting with you on Twitter xxNew Mum Onlinehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14285584922202683960noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1824547228125638907.post-65932744782126280412013-05-26T10:30:21.209+01:002013-05-26T10:30:21.209+01:00I was made redundant whilst on maternity leave wit...I was made redundant whilst on maternity leave with my second baby. He is now 14 months & we are struggling BIG time. I find it hard to keep positive and seem to miss a lot of his "special" moments as I am constantly trying to sort, clean, work, etc...<br />It's hard.<br />Being a mum isn't easy but you are certainly not alone. Even if this is your outlet for moaning over the next few weeks, use it, get it out.<br />Hook up with me on twitter @carlyjolewis as I only stumbled across your post by accident & would love to hear you moan more ;-) and then read your proper writing when you are happier xx<br />P.S. You have to listen to me as I may not be at the bottom of the garden but I am a Fairy... Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12431326103382039451noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1824547228125638907.post-89380711737506554132013-05-26T07:09:56.789+01:002013-05-26T07:09:56.789+01:00Don't give in, we ALL go through these times. ...Don't give in, we ALL go through these times. Give yourself some time to sit back, take stock and enjoy Aaron then come back when you're ready. We will still be here, big hugs xxxThe Masked Mummyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00133716027026171658noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1824547228125638907.post-11923153868233085452013-05-26T00:40:04.920+01:002013-05-26T00:40:04.920+01:00Woo Liska, slow down. If you want to write, then ...Woo Liska, slow down. If you want to write, then write it, even if you read it and think 'that's crap' - its your crap and sometimes we need to get it out (do not for one minute read that as me saying your blog is crap) and if you can't be arsed to blog then don't. Dump the pressure. Those of us who know and like ou will still be here when you come back to it. Give yourself a break and see how it goes.<br /><br />Looking forward to seeing you at BML.<br /><br />Mich xMichelleTwinMumhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03666267510923224699noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1824547228125638907.post-92200378565938992222013-05-25T23:37:56.276+01:002013-05-25T23:37:56.276+01:00Oh hun no great advice or miracle fix here, but wa...Oh hun no great advice or miracle fix here, but wanted you to know you aren't talking to yourself. I'm here LiskaJuliesnotebookhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09028141603260983336noreply@blogger.com