#KerryInOurHearts Friday 4th January 2013

Tomorrow 4th January 2013 is the private funeral followed by public thanksgiving service for Kerry, our Multiple Mummy.

Kerry peacefully passed away on Friday 14th December 2012.

As Kerry is so very loved throughout the online community, many people want to pay their respects tomorrow and being spread nationwide (and some worldwide) not all of them can get to the service.

Given that Kerry is so very much loved online, and it was a large part of her life, people would like to connect online during the service.

If you would like to be part of the online tributes to Kerry tomorrow please

tweet at 15:15

using the hastag:

#KerryInOurHearts

If tweeting is not your thing, or you simply would like to also do more:

the family (Lisa Seymour her Sister) have set up a LOVE KERRY just giving page

so that they can fundraise for Addenbrookes Charitable Trust, who looked after Kerry so very well for five long months.

To remember and connect with Kerry, you can watch the beautiful moving slideshow video her husband Nick put together:
Multiple photos for Kerry which he aptly called Kerry's Prayer on You Tube

Please spread the word so that we can pay tribute to Kerry tomorrow, and allow her online and offline families to be together.

Kerry will continue to be an inspiration to us all.  She is a shining light.

Lots of love,
Liska xxx
P.S. I am @NewMumOnline on twitter.
xx

Bug Bear Meme - Children In Need and Pudsey Bear

I am sad that Pudsey's fundraising may be effected by the recent goings on with the BBC, so I am setting up this meme to remind you all that he will be starring in tonight's BBC Children in Need TV schedule.

So please watch it if you can and donate.

To make this meme fun I thought we could complete things in the letters of Pudsey's name.

P is for please. Aaron I am so proud of the way you always say please.
U is for untidy.  I struggle to keep up with the mess you make.  Your toys are EVERYWHERE!
D is for dancing.  You are so musical and love to dance the minute you hear music.
S is for sun.  At the moment you start everyday by saying "the sun came up".  You're my joy!
E is for everything.  Being two, you are into everything at the moment - you keep me on my feet.
Y is for yesterday.  Since you came along, yesterday is always important as there's always a fab photo or memory to look back on.

So I am not going to tag anyone, as this meme really needs to be completed today, as Children in Need is on TV tonight, so please join in if you have writer's block and are looking for bloggy inspiration today.

See you on the sofa, or on Twitter when we're all watching and tuning in later.

Yesterday at Aaron's nursery all the tots had to dress for the letter P.  Pirates, or Princesses or PJs.  Aaron wore his Pudsey PJs:

If you'd ever like to make Children In Need cupcakes, I know just the Domestic Goddesque to show you how.

Here's a linky list if you would like to join in:

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Due to blogger's dynamic template, the list won't be visible unless you click the link but I will manually link to anyone who joins in as well, and tweet.

AND without further ado, the first bloggers to take up the task are:

1. Be More 4 Mums - great Pudsey video here and I love what she has said to spell PUDSEY 
2. Wendy from Inside the Wendy House just did an acrostic post which you can find HERE.
3. Madhouse Family Reviews joined in too with this beautiful post full of pictures and inspiration. 

And Wendy's just taught me a new word, via Facebook, when she told me about her above post:
a·cros·tic  (-krôstk, -krstk)n.

1. A poem or series of lines in which certain letters, usually the first in each line, form a name, motto, or message when read in sequence.

So we are showing our acrostic love for Pudsey :-)

Much love,

Liska & Aaron.

xxxx

Brit Mums: Bloggers Studio - Crossing The Chasm to Bring Your Blog to the Next Level

I know this is my 5th post about Brit Mums Live and I do apologise profusely but it is my blog, my space, my rules ;-)

I would just like to do some posts typing up my notes from some of the talks, so here goes:

Bloggers' Studio: Crossing the Chasm - How to Bring Your Blog to The Next Level

Disclaimer: I am not claiming to have written everything they said, although I have been known to do that in the past as I am a natural minutes note taker, but on this occassion I just wrote what was important or struck a cord with me...

For Northern Mum, she does not get the technical stuff and it is all about content.

Her Melness Speaks says that there needs to be a compelling reason it [your blog] exists.  The reason does not have to be as profound as hers.  Crap content begets a crap blog.  Grammar, content and being really circumspect makes a really good blog.  Spelling interrupts thought because it makes people say "oh dear, I WAS enjoying that".  Make your writing truthful to the author.  Every blog has an implied contract with readers.  Be consistent with your message and your voice.  Superior blogs HELP OTHER BLOGGERS.  HMS gave an example of this in that Nickie from I am Typecast mentioned her on her blog 2.5 years ago and that is why she was with us at Brit Mums Live.

Mel has kindly typed up her notes, as a presenter from Crossing The Chasm and includes them here in this post.


Michelle from Mummy From The Heart says that she has no desire to be a writer.  When reading her blog you are walking with her.  She is a marmite blogger who started in 2008 and is a self-confessed slow-starter.  7 month old twins at the time, so her blog sat on the cyber shelf for a year.  Wasn't open to public viewing and only gave URL to a couple of people.  2010 did not use Twitter.  People she commented on came back for a visit and realised that not all Christians wear socks and sandals (I do!!!!).  She has now been successfully running Reasons to be Cheerful for 72 weeks and does lots of initiatives for new bloggers.  She recommends: do what makes you happy and be completely unique!

Nickie from I am Typecast says: every person has their own story to tell.  She had a huge life event that made her go on forums and there was "nothing out there" so she decided to speak out.  There was only medical and corporate info and she wanted people's stories and experiences.  Your message is the reason you write.  It is the soap box you stand on.  Nickie is a self-confessed media whore.    She said we need the snowball effect.  We need to widen our network.

Nickie says: mix it up a little and let it grow.  Don't have to network with just other parent bloggers.

Maggy from Red Ted Art says:
She gets 10-15k hits a day.  She hopes the people reading want to get crafty with their kids.  On the back of her blog she has a book deal coming.

Her recommendations are:

• Good content and put in effort.
• Presentation and photographs (she is tempted to delete her earlier ones but believes they are part of her story/history)
• Progressed a lot in photography
• Grabs people's attention so that they stay and read
• Engage with other people.
• Using Google + well can increase your search results
• Embrace and go with the flow
• Pinterest - session on it tomorrow.
• Nickie says: respond to comments on your blog.

Over to Nickie again:
Her blog is about discussion.  Leaving more comments leads to getting more comments. Make an effort to build your community.   Freedom to write about what I want and tone.  Find new blogs and new things to say/read.

Maggy:
Broaden horizon or start a 2nd blog.  She has started a 2nd blog, and cross-links them both.

This post above is really ramblings on a note pad as I was sometimes listening, not scribbling.

If you want to hear more, Nickie has written about the session on her own blog here.
So has Her Melness as I said above - here is her full presentation below her recap of the event itself.

Bye for now, Liska
xx