Showing posts with label twitter. Show all posts
Showing posts with label twitter. Show all posts

Saturday, 28 July 2012

Aidan Burley MP - the most talked about tweet of the Opening Ceremony

The Opening Ceremony was awesome, formidable, humbling and tear jerking in equal measure.

Tonight I am very proud.

What I am NOT proud of, is one Tory MP that till tonight was nameless (in my world).

He ( ) is now famous for these two tweets (with a naff apology at the end):





I did not have to wait till the morning to see him slammed in the press.  Thanks to The Telegraph's blogger Tim Stanley, the backlash has already started and I am glad I have read this, as now I know he sent not one but TWO insensitive tweets (both above).  He (like many MPs) is clearly out of touch.  How can the ceremony be too multi-cultural when it was followed by over 200 nations' athletes walking around the stadium - multi-culture on display at its best.  So what he is saying does not even make sense!

I can't wait to see how he plans on getting out of this one.  Have people (especially in the spotlight) not noticed the trouble that Twitter can get them in.  No doubt he'll be answerable to David Cameron first thing Monday morning.

I would just like us to remember the beauty of the occasion more, than his out of touch b/shit!

And I just Googled again to find it has also made The Guardian - what has he got himself into ha ha!

The Guardian article linked to is worth reading in full but if you don't, one thing it says is:
The latest tweets by Burley are likely to guarantee that the Oxford graduate, who had been marked out by Cameron for promotion after his election in 2010, will have no political future in a mainstream political party. Burley is MP for the marginal seat of Cannock Chase and will be vulnerable to a Labour challenge if he retains the Conservative whip.
Anyway, I am zonked after staying up late to watch the ceremony.  So, off to bed for me.  Aaron has a fun day tomorrow, so I need some energy for that!

The atmosphere tonight was awesome till Paul McCartney came on stage, and we seemed to be unanimous about that on Twitter - I did not see one tweeter sticking up for him.

Bye for now, Liska
New Mum Online
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P.S. I still have the TV on and it is wonderful to hear what people are saying to the cameras as they are leaving the stadium.  Proud to be British tonight

Saturday edit: read this!

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Saturday, 5 May 2012

I knew there was another way - Twitter - election spent on Twitter

Morning everyone

I should be unhappy today.  Boris won the position of London Mayor when I wanted Ken to win. 

Ken! 41 years of serving London
X no. of years serving himself!

I sincerely hope he is not gloating today given the fact that he did NOT win by a landslide. 

Lots of people didn't vote due to the rain (!) and didn't vote Ken just because he didn't publish his taxes. 

Lots of people voted Boris because he is "funny"..... I do despair.....
As Churchill once said:
"The best argument against democracy is a five-minute conversation with the average voter."
  --  Winston Churchill
But for the first time since February I enjoyed my time on Twitter last night.

At first, I thought it was due to political tweets and I thought I would have to put Mummy tweeting behind me, in favour of politics (me? ha ha!) but then along came a gang of Mums, and I really enjoyed tweeting with them:


Also, I discovered (as I kinda knew already) that it is possible to disagree with someone without falling out (that was why I was SO CROSS about what happened in February as it was so unnecessary).  When someone disagrees with you, there is no need for name calling and no need to be "short" with them! Especially when you have met that person in real life!

This below, is a perfect example of how it is possible to make your point and not fall out - both of us got our point across methinks :-)





So Twitter - thanks to me being on there for the election results, I have regained my faith in human nature - Politicians AND Mums.  So for me that is a good thing, and overshadows my sorrow at Ken losing :-)

Liska x 

Friday, 27 April 2012

Twitter and The Law

There's frequently talk about Twitter's effect on the big guy, like the ones last year who had super injunctions and gagging orders and the fact that thousands of tweeters could get away with what the press couldn't.
.... "exposed the total inadequacy of court rulings which gag the press – but have no effective control over what is published online" (source: Mail Online By Chris Greenwood

Where were you last year (2011) if you don't remember that tens of thousands of Twitter users defied a High Court ruling, to identify the footballer Ryan Giggs as the holder of a super-injunction. Read about the legal implications here.


So although those "tens of thousands" got away with it, a bit of a precedent has been made with the recent case of Twitter racism - Liam Stacey RE: footballer: Fabrice Muamba.  The law has clearly taken a stand, and Twitter is no longer above the law.

I wrote this post back, late March, shortly after the arrest happened:
"South Wales police have arrested a 21-year-old male from the Pontypridd area in connection with racially offensive comments made on the social network site Twitter. The male is currently being held in custody at Swansea Central police station."
Liam Stacey actually went on to be jailed for 56 days:
Swansea University student Liam Stacey, 21, from Pontypridd, admitted inciting racial hatred over remarks about the Bolton Wanderers player, who collapsed during a FA Cup tie at Tottenham.
A district judge in Swansea called the comments "vile and abhorrent".
Part of me says: hey, that's not right....

Why?... Because... most of what people say on Twitter is said in haste and there is so so much abuse on there, why pick on one Biology student?

- and I am saying that with a black husband and mixed race son - I am clearly not in favour of racism, but I am in favour of free speech.

But I am not in favour of free speech that oversteps the mark.... but therein lies the problem - who defines the "mark"?  Well, the law for one, and racism is, illegal, at least in this country, amongst others.

Only trouble is, other Tweeters are still rampantly engaged in it, (racism and abuse of all sorts) and this one chap has been singled out.... and made an example of.

That shouldn't bother me, given what he did, but I guess I also believe in fairness.

Everyone remembers that the flagrant disregard for the gagging orders didn't effect Twitter users, so before people get a criminal record, surely a new message needs to go out, that Twitter is no longer above the law.

I guess that is what's now happened?  With this guy as the sacrificial lamb?

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A lot of what goes on in the news normally passes me by, or at least doesn't pray on my mind, but these recent stories have had me reading and re-reading, given what happened to me in the last few weeks [this post has been in draft for so long it is now more like a couple of months].

My negative Twitter experience was all to do with the aftermath of tweets exchanged on 22nd and 23rd February 2012, and the fact that I dared to write a balanced post about them, that included screenshots, which if you look at the online press, which I did later, is actually quite a commonplace thing to do.

Anyway I was subsequently pressured to take the post down, which I did.  Despite the fact that loads of people confirmed to me that it was indeed quite balanced, and the comments left on it proved that.  I took it down, but it remains in draft form.

A Saturday night (25th Feb) of me being called every name under the sun on Twitter (including unhinged) was the build up to the phone call and me taking the post down - with hindsight, what happened on Twitter that Saturday night was (or was bordering on) malicious comms.  Especially given that the post that sparked it all was NOT ABUSIVE, unlike the tweets it then resulted in....

Due to how the whole affair left me feeling, I went on to do my "Words Heard"You Tube video I thought it was then all okay.  I thought I had put it behind me, BUT when I wanted (on 14th March) to write a 100 words post, where the prompt was "and then I turned off" that was all it took, for it to be the 1st thing that popped into my mind.

Then again,
I thought,
THAT is it!
I have finally purged the last remaining thoughts, and now I really have put it behind me,
BUT then on 19th March, I came across this post.  It had been posted on 15th March but took 4 days for me to notice/stumble across it.  Quite a lot about that post bothered me.  The subject heading and the leading image for one.

Took me a few days to comment, as I wasn't sure if it was the right thing to do.  The author of the post had not engaged in the behaviour, on Twitter, that had bothered me, but there was a phone call, a phone call of a mediator tone, from the author of that blog, to me, hence my comment...

Getting my thoughts on that post, OUT, in a comment, again made me feel purged UNTIL I found out that my comment had been deleted.

Now that shocked me, given the numbers of people I often see say that they encourage debate and don't believe in the moderation of comments etc...

Now I did not want to write this post, which is why I didn't blog for TEN DAYS after I wrote it, and now it's been even longer.  But a funny thing happened.  Each night that I felt like blogging, it was like there was a queue in my head, and any other post (even 2 sponsored ones) couldn't be written until this one was out (in fact huge apologies to those companies as they still have not been.  As I didn't want to write this one, and my honest brain wouldn't let me write anything other than the truth of what was in my head to write, the only way to deal with it was to sit on  my proverbial hands.  So in the last few weeks I have mainly only written Inner Truth posts, largely just so that I could open the blog hop linky for anyone who wanted to participate.

So it was like blog or be damned, so I damned myself into silence.

Now, rightly or wrongly, I have decided that if I am still feeling like this after so long, then I need to publish my comment (that was deleted from that post) here.  Otherwise it makes a mockery of my freedom of speech stance.

I had a reminder last night at a Fanta event (which was amazing) that I am no longer blogging enough and that people miss me, so I decided to deal with my BLOGGING CONSTIPATION....

The comment (below) is my thoughts on the subject (of that call), and if it can't be published on the post, it will be published here, as is my right as a blogger. I don't want my comment to be hidden like some dirty secret.  I've already lost online friends because of the whole affair........ and no longer have the respect for blogging/bloggers that I once had.

Honesty seems to be cast out, as does free speech.  Unless you are saying what's allowed.  Allowed by who?

Sat nam!

Liska x
I don’t know if I am “right” in assuming that the phone call you speak of is the one that you had with me.

What you say, bears a striking resemblance to what I know was your interpretation of the call (judging by your email afterwards).

My need to be right (as you perceived it), was fuelled by several comments that you made, that were wrong. One was that you’d been on Twitter and hadn’t seen me being called names - I put you straight on that one, as I was called many things by the person in question AND her followers.  As you seemed doubtful of that, saying that you hadn’t seen them, I felt the need to say I had screen shots of them, which made you derisively say with a sneer: what so you can do another post?  To which I replied “no”, I have them in case they are deleted.

You went on to say that people are probably cooking or putting kids to bed and won’t be seeing the names I am being called, so I put you straight that my stats were indicating that people in very large numbers, were in fact seeing the name calling, linking it to me, and coming over to my blog as a result.

Another was that you said the other person had not tweeted a link to the post.  As this was probably the 4th inaccurate comment, in short succession, I nervously laughed at the irony and said “yes she did at 9:50 p.m.”.

You went as far as to say my post was bullying, when I tried to point out that what was taking place on Twitter (before and in the lead up to your call) was in fact bullying.

You then went on to say that you were disappointed in me.....

I am surprised that you refer to the call as a “chat” - I don’t consider an unwelcome intrusion to my Saturday night after bedtime a chat.  I am still rightly or wrongly assuming the call you refer to is with me.

Each time I was being right about something it was about a fact, not a grey area open to interpretation.

You also said I wouldn’t feel happy until I took the post down - you were also wrong about that.  I did it to keep the peace (despite you saying that neither party wanted to down weapons), but it wasn’t the right thing for me!

The whole scenario left a nasty taste in my mouth... and I was a little gutted to see reference to it here as I was hoping to put it behind me, as you advised I should do.

Despite this post being published on 15th March I only stumbled across it on 19th March, and I did have serious reservations about posting a comment, but decided that I would.
And there is no disputing the fact, that before being deleted, my comment WAS successfully published:

Edit, on 31st July 2012:
Given what is now happening on Twitter to Tom Daley, I was correct in my assertion that the right way to deal with it, is as malicious comms.  Read this.

Anyway, I have screen shots of everything that was said about me that night, so I have the required evidence should anyone ever doubt what took place.

Look at the outcry that occurs when a celebrity and much loved diver/athlete is upset.  It isn't so when it happens to a member of the public, but at least all these test cases will make people realise that Twitter is not a place to use and abuse people!

Liska x

Friday, 24 June 2011

Cybermummy 2011 - Last Minute Prep

Hi

If you are a Mummy Blogger then chances are you know that Cybermummy is on tomorrow.


A shop in Enfield Town (where I found myself yesterday) rescued my business card situation so I will go to the "ball" with cards after all.  I couldn't get on well with any of the business cards websites.

Today I went to get a dress - last minute dash for an outfit.  In Monsoon all of the Maxi Dresses seemed to have cotton in and they were so tight I didn't even get into an 18.  Tried on 8 different ones.

Went to good old Marks & Spencers and I tried on a size 14 that was 100% lycra jersey fabric and it fitted beautifully.  That was darn lucky as after my Monsoon experience I was thinking of throwing the towel in and not going at all as the sight of me in fitting room lighting was NOT good!

M&S quite literally saved my day.  Would have been so much easier if I'd lost weight the last few weeks as it was more of a case of what fits me! Rather than what suits me!  But luckily the M&S maxi dress did both! And until the last few weeks I did not know what a maxi dress was! Ha ha!

And not only am I happy with the dress I got, but it certainly hides a multitude of sins...

I went to get my hair cut and ended up....
  1. Getting the hair cut
  2. Then getting a half leg wax
  3. Then a pedicure
  4. at which point she said you need a manicure
  5. and while they were doing that they said get your eyebrows threaded.
So I left that shop £48 less well off and well groomed :-)

So tonight the husband is asleep and Aaron is asleep and I don't really know what to do with myself. I am too much on red alert to have an early night...

I just rummaged through my jewellery and decided what to wear so I THINK I am all sorted.

The mobile is on charge.  The camera is on charge.  If I had fake tan too I would think I was going to a wedding :-)

It was only today that I got my new phone (Samsung Galaxy Ace) out of the box.  Tried to put Twitter on it a few weeks back and when I couldn't, I boxed it away in frustration, but today (last minute again) I decided I can't go to Cybermummy Twitterless (and I normally tweet from my laptop) so I stubbornly walked into a T Mobile shop and the lovely assistant helped me to activate it.

How we are supposed to be tweeting when we are surrounded in our blog friends I do not know, but I will certainly give it a go.

Bye for now, I am sure I have some preparing to do :-)

Liska xxx